“Everything happens for a reason.”
While no one seems to know exactly who originally said that or exactly what brought it about, almost everyone has had some kind of experience that validates it. While your child may say or do something utterly surprising, seemingly out of the blue, or totally unexpected, you can rest assured that there is indeed a reason behind it. While whatever it may be may not at first appear evident, you will be happy to know that upon further examination, you are likely to be able to figure it out.
Look with love for the real cause of your child’s misbehavior.
Once a problem has occurred, it cannot be undone. However, once you understand the cause, you can do what you can to remove it.