Paper Box Candy Man

Written by Shara Lawrence-Weiss, Mommy Perks

I have four children and each one is different and unique in many ways. I have to adjust my parenting style for each child, which is not always easy. My two eldest children are very logical and matter-of-fact. My son, age four, is far more abstract in his thinking. I've had to work hard to adjust my parenting approach for him and learn to work within his guidelines.

We recently moved into a new home and that's brought about some behavior challenges. Today, I gave my son a big paper box and told him to rip it up: "Here. Rather than hit your sister, how about you rip up the box? Tear it up! Go for it! Get your energy out!"

After he was done he said, "Mom. Can we make a craft now?" I said, "Sure. What kind of craft do you want to make?" He explained, in his own words, that he wanted to make a paper box man from the pieces of cardboard. He wanted to put candy all around it and pretend it was a candy man.

This was new to me. I've never created a craft like this one but by golly, we had fun!

Here's my son, placing the candy (and other random items that he found inside our packing boxes) on the Paper Box Candy Man's face:

Paper box candy man

We gave the character some long hair growing upwards:

Paper box candy man face

My daughter came over to jump in on the fun:

Paper box candy man kids

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#7 Shara - owner 2013-02-25 12:11
Yes - I'll keep the pics, for sure! Thanks, Ros.
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#6 Ros 2013-02-25 09:06
Quick thinking Mom! This one goes into the prized memory book. This photo's going to be so fun to share with him when he's an adult.
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#5 Shara - owner 2013-01-12 21:44
Connie - Thanks! I appreciate your nice comment. Enjoy your evening.
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#4 connie goldin 2013-01-12 17:41
What a fun idea. How wonderful that you could just go with this idea at that moment. Especially with unpacking, etc! Happy New Home.
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#3 Shara - owner 2013-01-07 07:24
Ava: Thanks for reading the post and thank you for the kind comment. You are my creative superhero, though. The stories you tell me about how you and R get creative - amazing!

Louise - Thank you. I appreciate your nice comment!
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#2 Louise Sattler 2013-01-04 14:26
Love this idea... and I love how you recognize that EACH child is different and needs to be parented differently! BRAVO! :-)
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#1 Ava 2013-01-03 16:25
You never cease to amaze me !!
the quality of your interactions & creativity is awesome!!
this is fantastic so great redirecting his anger Into creativity
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